OK so I found this site:
http://www.bukisa.com/articles/265078_how-to-really-enable-dvd-drive-sharing-on-a-non-air-macbook
And just skipped down to the part about terminal. I have two macbooks with broken DVD drives and needed to have them install software from my MacBook Pro DVD drive. So from the MacBooks I just entered the two terminal commands and rebooted.
defaults write com.apple.NetworkBrowser EnableODiskBrowsing -bool true
defaults write com.apple.NetworkBrowser ODSSupported -bool true
